"To hustle, and to be hustled"
My experience with a recruiter, and how networking has
taken on a different meaning
How to navigate and stay sane during the job hunt
Having just freshly graduated with a boat-load of optimism
and zero experience with Excel, the job search has been a test of a lot of
things. It takes strength to believe that you’d be an excellent candidate for
positions that seem out of your league, and endurance to keep sending your
resume into the black abyss; to spin everything into a positive when the answer
is no; to not be discouraged when people make false promises or when something
falls through.
It's been over two months, and truth be told, I haven't
been entirely strategic in the job hunt. At the same time, I’ve had an
incredibly strong support system—namely, my older sister who has significantly changed
my understanding of what networking actually means. Now before you become annoyed
and stop reading because you've heard this word since you were three, let me explain
further. Especially if you’re someone who scrunches up their face anytime you
come across anything that has to do with “networking.” Human interaction? No
thanks.
More than that, I had resented the idea of “networking”
because it implied that I needed others for help; and even worse, that I had to
ask others for help.
I feared this, immensely. I didn't want to owe anyone any
favors. Not only that, I told myself, “no one owes you anything.” All of this
only prevented me from reaching out to both strangers and people that I knew.
The period of inaction was the worst for me. Thankfully, it was again my sister
who was there to give me a major reality check.
1. Yes, people are busy. So be clear about what you’re
asking.
Email tips:
ii. Try to end emails with a question; you’re more likely
to get a response this way.
iii. Emails are like poems and/or sandwiches; there’s a
beginning, a middle, and a closing.
2. Take some time to do research
I know, any time not barreling through job sites or
chucking resumes feels like time wasted. However, it actually might be better
for your sanity if you read up a little about human resources or hospitality.
That way, when you tailor your resume and cover letter (yes, do this!) you might
understand better why you a.) want the job, b.) why you’d be a good fit for it.
Research might even lead you to people you’d want to contact.
3. Taking action is more important than trying to keep
all of your options open
Don’t know what you want to do or where you want to go?
Have many interests? Welcome to the club, my friend! Not knowing is okay, but
you‘ll also never know if you never try. So instead of spending time debating
whether you want to pursue law or hospitality, apply to positions in both
fields.
4. Don’t let the fear of making a mistake or misstep prevent
you from going forth.
Let’s admit it, we’re only beginning chess players. Yes,
we’ve made it this far, but we’ve barely dipped our toes. Calculating possible
outcomes is not your best mode of action right now. Move a pawn, and then
another, and then another. Realize that mistakes will help you learn.
5. Embrace the uncertainty! Stay calm, healthy, and
happy.
We’re in a tough transitional period. While it’s
important to keep knocking on doors, it’s equally important to relax in the
knowledge that you’ll be fine. Learning how to take care of yourself and how to
make good decision is number one. Do things that you’ll be proud of yourself
for, whether that means going to the gym or writing in your journal. Don’t let
anyone bring you down! Especially not yourself.
- Sherry Yuan, Class of 2015
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